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The Connection Lab

Successful in life but struggling in relationships?

3 Month Program for Relationship Mastery

If you long for a joyful, healthy, and extraordinary relationship—one that matches the level of success you've achieved elsewhere, you're in the right place!

Next cohort starts November 26th, 2024
"Relationships are the top predictor of life satisfaction and longevity, surpassing even exercise and nutrition."
 - Harvard study of adult development -
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The key to a happy life lies in mastering the art of meaningful connections...
Yet, ​we: 
  • Navigate relationships through trial and error

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  • Repeat the same relationship patterns over and over

  • Are never taught how to communicate our desires and boundaries
     

  • Face doubts and insecurities alone

Now you can have: 

A team of experts to guide and educate on relational skills

 

Intimate, emotionally supportive pod alongside expert guidance

Structured support systems similar to academic and professional careers

 

Comprehensive support for the most crucial aspect of our lives - our relationships

Be part of a community dedicated to Relationship Mastery

 

Weekly Connection & Support from Intimate Circle of Peers:

​Your personal accountability and support group of 3-4 growth oriented peers. Weekly check-ins and high touch personalized community support. This is where a lot of the magic happens.

Live Bi Weekly Courses with Hands-on-Skills:
Biweekly we tackle a crucial relationship theme—ranging from effectively communicating unmet sexual needs, addictions and financial concerns to having effective relationship check-ins. In our biweekly live courses, you'll master cutting-edge relationship skills, practice them real-time with peers, bring these conversations to your partner, and then circle back for a community check-in.

Expert Wisdom & Real Success Stories:

Biweekly, we present relationship experts, coaches and those who’ve successfully navigated relationship challenges for up to 43 years. Absorb their wisdom and learn the secrets to nurturing and long lasting love.
 

Tailored Relationship Insights:

Monthly, we select 3 members for a deep-dive analysis, offering personalized insights to help take your relationship to the next level. Gain clarity on where you stand and learn how to deepen your connection.
 

Community Forum:

Share your relationship challenges in our Community program portal and receive support and guidance from your peers and our expert team within 24 hours.
 

Exclusive Access:

Enjoy on-demand access to our live session replays and self-paced courses anytime. It’s your toolkit for continuous relationship skill improvement.

What happens at The Connection Lab

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Hi, I’m Joe Che.

I’ll be your host for the Connection Lab.

 

In a past life, I’ve founded and built 12 business across education, events, tech, VR, real estate, and have worked really hard to have “success” under my belt to realize that while it may help create more freedom - it’s having healthy, meaningful connections that is the foundation for my happiness.

 

I’ve dedicated the past 29 years of my life to building communities around the globe, both learning and teaching about personal development and human connection. In doing so, I have been learning and gathering the best practices from some of the world’s leading experts in communication, intimacy, romantic relationships, and more.

Join me on this journey to explore, understand, and deepen the connections that enrich our lives.

Testimonials

"Joe is probably the best communicator in the entire world… I definitely credit him for the quality, consistency, and happiness of my relationship with my wife."

Joel Wish

Founder: BrightHarbor, Bedrock Energy, SimpleHealth, Frontline Foods & Sol
Angel Investor, Climate & Health Tech Leader

Why Join The Connection Lab?

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Example Topics

Here are some of the topics we will dive into during the Program.

Mastering the Vision For Your Relationship
  • How do I envision my ideal relationship, and what steps can I take to work towards it?

  • How can I identify and challenge limiting beliefs that impact my relationships?

Mastering Relationship Sovereignty
  • How can I set healthy boundaries without feeling guilty or losing my sense of self?

  • What steps can I take to maintain my individuality while nurturing a connected relationship?

  • How to have difficult conversations

​Mastering Deeper Connection
  • How can I deepen emotional intimacy and build a lasting connection while honoring both our needs?

  • Understanding Love Languages

  • Understanding Attachment Styles

  • How to have Succesful Relationship Check-Ins

Mastering Conflict
  • How do I get someone to truly understand me?​

  • How can we identify and address underlying issues rather than focusing on surface-level arguments?

  • How do we build trust after it’s been broken?

  • How can we "fight" with love that brings more connection and not less?

  • How to deal with emotional flooding

Mastering Intimacy
  • How can I communicate my sexual needs and desires in a way that creates more connection, and not less?

  • What can I do to deepen intimacy and feel closer to my partner?

  • How to increase trust and emotional intimacy

  • Understanding my erotic blueprint

People talking
It's like an MBA for your relationships

The Connection Lab is perfect
for you if…

  • You are 31-49 and successful in many areas of your life, but struggling in romantic partnerships.
     

  • You crave a joyful, healthy, and extraordinary relationship—one that matches the level of success you've achieved elsewhere.
     

  • You know your external successes only mean so much, it’s the quality of your romantic relationships that will bring you long term happiness, health and longevity.
     

  • You’re ready to commit time and energy to up-leveling your relationship skills and discovering more about yourself in the process.

The Connection Lab is not 
for you if…

  • Building a fulfilling relationship is not a priority in your life right now
     

  • You prefer quick fixes over long-term change in relationships
     

  • You're not ready to engage in self-inquiry or see how you can be a better person
     

  • You don’t want to engage in peer groups
     

  • You are not ready to practice showing vulnerability
     

  • You are often blaming others for your failed relationships

Expert Interviews

Here’s everything you’re getting when you join The Connection Lab today

✔️ Live bi-weekly relationship skills courses with guided practical excercises 

✔️ Your own curated peer circle of 4, doing ongoing support and biweekly check-ins

✔️ Step by step communication guides 

✔️ Weekly frameworks with practical advice and skills 

✔️ Guided practices  

✔️ In-depth relationship analyses 

✔️ Interviews / Q&A with relationship experts

PRICE: $899

Early bird ended on November 2nd

Money back guarantee*

Our Promise

At The Connection Lab, we promise you'll end up with better, healthier relationships than when you started. You'll see clear improvements in how you connect with others, enriching your bonds with your partner, friends, family, and loved ones.

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FAQ:

Why would I need a community to solve my personal relationship challenges?

  • Initially, your relationship issues might seem unique to you, but you'll quickly discover that many people face similar struggles. Observing how others tackle their relationship challenges can provide you with valuable insights and strategies for your own situation.

  • Moreover, navigating relationship difficulties can be daunting when faced alone. Being part of a vibrant community, united by the goal of enhancing relationships, adds a layer of enjoyment and freedom to the process. This support network is here to guide and uplift you, making the journey toward improvement both more effective and enjoyable.

Is this a safe space for me to share my vulnerability?

  • Absolutely. The Connection Lab prides itself on being a safe, supportive community grounded in empathy, respect, and love. We uphold our community rules with utmost seriousness, ensuring a secure environment for all members. Anyone found not adhering to these principles is promptly removed, maintaining the integrity and safety of our space.
     

Will these be my people? Can I relate to them?

  • Our community is made up of individuals on similar relationship paths. By connecting and sharing experiences with them, you'll discover insights into your own journey, uncover hidden challenges, and experience breakthroughs.

Which time zone and what times will the live calls be?

  • The biweekly live calls will be on Tuesdays at 10 am PST, 1 pm EST, 7 pm CET

  • If you are in a time zone where these time don't work, let us know where you are at and we will do our best to add an extra cohort.

  • All the calls will be recorded for you to watch at a time that works best for you.

What if I don't like the small group that I have been matched with?

  • We are doing our best to create a good fit for everyone in the peer groups, however, if for any reason you are not happy with the group that you have been matched with, you have the possibility of switching groups during the first three weeks of the program.

*What does the money back guarantee entail?

  • We'll be happy to give you your money back if you have engaged in the first 3 sessions. This includes the introductory call, a skills lesson and one peer group session. We truly believe if you experience these you'll deeply see the value and if you don't feel the value, we'll make it easy for you to exit with the same care you entered with. 

Is this worth the money?

  • Definitely. A landmark Harvard study tracking 724 individuals over 85 years has conclusively shown that the key to happiness and longevity isn't found in wealth, career success, fitness, or diet, but in the strength of our relationships. Strong connections make us happier, healthier, and extend our lives.

  • Commonly, there's a misconception that once relationships are formed, they'll maintain themselves automatically. However, this isn't the case. Much like plants need water and sunlight to thrive, our relationships require ongoing attention and love to flourish.

  • Our mission is to enhance and elevate the quality of interpersonal connections, making this investment not just worthwhile, but invaluable.

Do I have to be in a relationship?

  • No. This is perfect for you whether you are single, dating or in relationship(s).

How inclusive of different experiences and perspectives will you be?

  • We will be teaching relationship and communication skills that will span across cultures, relationship styles, sexual orientation, identities, and ethnicity. These tools are useful no matter your unique position.

  • Depending on the cohort you are in, we will try matching people in affinity groups if that is their desire for the small peer groups. 

I don’t know if I have enough time to learn everything offered in the community.

  • Investing time is crucial for nurturing successful relationships. Our community gathers once a week, fostering a shared learning experience so you never feel alone in your journey. If you're unable to attend a session, recordings are available to ensure you don't miss out.
     

Isn’t it better to work with a relationship coach?

  • Engaging with the right relationship coach can indeed be transformative for your relationship.

  • However, The Connection Lab goes beyond individual coaching by offering access to a carefully selected group of relationship experts. Alongside expert guidance, you'll find a wealth of resources at your fingertips: weekly relationship skills courses, comprehensive relationship analyses, and much more. It's not just coaching; it's a complete toolbox designed to elevate your relationship to new heights.
     

Should my partner be onboard with this?

  • Your decision to enhance your relationship skills is already a significant step forward to happier, healthier relationships. However, having both you and your partner engage with our community and grow together would be even better, offering mutual support and shared development.

  • We provide all the necessary tools to improve your communication, reshape your relationship dynamics, and help you respond more calmly to potential triggers, thereby minimizing conflict. By adopting a fresh perspective on your relationship, your own growth can become a powerful catalyst, inspiring your partner to join you in making positive changes.
     

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